Toadstool Sprite
Peek first. Join when you're ready.
What this friend is telling you
The little sprite peeks out from under its glowing red mushroom cap before it comes all the way out. It checks who is around. It listens. THEN it steps into the hollow. That is a smart way to join anything new. Watch the game for a minute before jumping in. Listen to the group before piling in loud. Careful is not the same as scared. Careful is wise. But do come out — the hollow is more fun with you in it.
Watch out for…
peeking forever. Set a little timer in your heart, and when it dings, step out.
Try this
Next new game or group, watch for one minute, then say: "Can I join?" Those three words work almost every single time.